I think my boyfriend is becomeing a player?

If my boyfriend EVER did that, my first words to him the next time I saw him would've been "adios." Seriously, you DO NOT need to settle. If a guy is texting other girls, telling them he likes them, and flirting, then he obviously doesn't care about your feelings very much. I know you must really like him to be able to stay with him after that. I would be heartbroken if someone I was dating was doing that kind of thing. If you really like him, and you think it would be the end of the world if you broke up, then give him an ultimatum. Tell him that it hurts your feelings, and if you can't trust him, you don't understand how the relationship will work out. If you don't think it would be that hard to break it off, break it off. Good luck honey:)